FANDOMS ARE BATSHIT CRAZY!!!

THIS IS A RANT. READ AT YOUR OWN RISK. IF I OFFENDED YOU, I DON'T CARE!!

I'm a true Twilight fan, I love the cast, the books, heck I have been reading Twilight fanfictions for years. Hence, it's no surprise when Fifty Shades of Grey came out, I was excited as hell. For those who don't know, Fifty Shades of Grey originated as a Twilight fanfiction under the name of MOTU which stands for Master of The Universe.

I have read the original fanfic and the Fifty Shades Grey series of books. Naturally, when the movie came out, I watched it and subsequently thought the cast were really cool people. On social networks like Facebook and Instagram, I started following Jamie Dornan and other fanpages to get updates on new movies or any other news. I did the same during the Twilight years and I still follow most of the Twilight cast accounts even now.

I have seen it before and I see it now again. The FUCK is wrong with the people in the fandoms? They are BATSHIT CRAZY! For example, this one account I follow on Instagram which is dedicated to Jamie and Amelia Dornan is downright creepy and stalkerish. The account holder posts old pictures from their dating years, their marriage ceremony, even post trivia about their wedding and also stalk Jamie's sisters on the social network. This account holder fights so hard back to other fans that 'SHIP' Jamie and Dakota constantly trying to prove that Jamie and Amelia are a sweet, loving couple.

What astounds me is that the account holder is so free to spent so many hours editing pictures, videos and argue online. The fuck is wrong with this person? Doesn't he or she have his or her own life? Like seriously, GET A FUCKING LIFE.

Do they really think Amelia and Jamie care that some idiot somewhere spends hours online posting pictures about their private life, stalking them and then defending their so call honor? The fuck! 

These people are in the show business, they have ambitions, they make money, they have their private lives and in general they have a fucking life.

This fanatic fandom members who spent useless amounts of hours and energy into editing pictures, videos and searching the Internet for any tiny detail about The Dornans, obviously have no fucking life.

I mean seriously grow the fuck up, if you're adult, mature the fuck, go focus on your fucking family, career and ambitions. Try to even get a better, healthier hobby instead of spending countless hours stalking a poor family in the name of being their fans. 

I'm pretty sure Jamie and Amelia would appreciate being left to their private lives without a bunch of nutcases discussing their private lives like it's a public matter.

Seriously, who the fuck do you think you are to talk or judge their private life? Do these people in the fandom know how crazy they sound?

Shame on you people. If you're in a fandom to come together and discuss your love for a common movie or book, that's okay, that's a legit hobby but if you spent your whole fucking day arguing with other people on the Internet over some actors who don't even know you exist at all then that's pretty fucking pathetic.

PATHETIC!!!!

For those fans who think they can get on Jamie and Amelia's good side by defending them on social networks, think again! If I'm famous actor, I would hate being constantly stalked, private moments intruded and private life being dissected in the public. If you really are a fan of them, leaving them in peace would do them good!

Premarital Sex among Malaysians

Helloo, I know it's been long since I updated and this completely a irrelevant topic but I'm pissed hearing all the rumors and gossip going around.
So, skip this if you want because this is a rant.


What is with Malaysian guys these days wanting to date a girl, have fun with her but marry a virgin? I don't get this, you need a girl to test your skills with, have fun and then you want to settle down with a homely, virgin girl. This so wrong ethically and morally. I hate every time I hear a guy looking for a homely girl but flirting all around with the more open minded ones.

See that pic? If you're not going to marry, take your hands off her, she's someone else's future. Unless of course if she wants or if she asks for it. I have heard of way to many virgins being seduced by their boyfriends only to be left high and dry afterwards. For girls, please don't succumb to seductions or peer pressure, do it on your own want. Most importantly, don't ever indulge a guy who's calling other girls slut, bitches etc...because you know that's how he's going to call you if you sleep with him.

Make no mistake, I have no problem against premarital sex, while I'm a virgin myself, I think if you feel that you have met someone you want to do the deed with, there's no harm in that at all as long as you being 100% completely safe.

In fact, I don't get why premarital sex is such a taboo in Malaysia. Calm the heck down. It's just some tussle in between the sheets. I despise how girls are valued and judged if they're good or bad by the existence (or the lack of it) of their virginity.

I hate how there's so much pressure from family for a girl to be virgin and not be involved in any relationships. We are talking about most parents here, regardless of race. Agreeably, while I get their concern regarding the sexual diseases running rampant nowadays and all that. That still shouldn't condone society treating girls who have done the deed like social thrash. Just saying by the way, I have heard of cases of married couple contracting STDs from their partners. Point is,there's no guarantee right? Unless both parties decide to practice abstinence.

Do you know how many marriages fail and end in divorce because of bad sex life? Check the divorce statistics in Malaysia. Why are people in Malaysia so patriarchal that we want our sons to only marry a virgin bride? What is wrong with women being more sexually liberated?

As for me, I believe I will do the deed if I meet the right person and in my case, it's not premarital sex if you're never getting married. Besides, from years of watching marriage institutions around me, I have completely lost my faith in it. Most marriages are either unhappy or simply fail. I have not met one marriage that is happy so far. It's bull crap. When you marry someone, you marry their family too and all the dramas that come with it. I'm going off topic here but you get my views on this matter, I believe it's completely healthy for women (not girls!) to explore their sexuality as long as they're being 100% completely safe which includes making sure their partners are healthy as well.

Many might disagree with my views but this is my opinion, no one is forcing you to accept it.